I read somewhere that the best predictor of whether you will be able to develop a secure attachment (i.e. the healthiest of all attachment styles) to your child is your ability to narrate your life history coherently. In light of this read, the best parents also seem to be the best "rationalizers" or the best (individual-level) "ideologists":-)
I read somewhere that the best predictor of whether you will be able to develop a secure attachment (i.e. the healthiest of all attachment styles) to your child is your ability to narrate your life history coherently. In light of this read, the best parents also seem to be the best "rationalizers" or the best (individual-level) "ideologists":-)